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July 21, 2021

how guilt, shame, and fear sabotage your manifestation

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As humans, more so as women, we are wired to wax and wane with the rhythm of the moon. Yet, we feel pressure from the society - a society constructed by men, for men who have a daily 24 hr life force cycle - to abandon our monthly rhythm, our cycle, our connection with the moon. Give yourself a month to track your moods, and productive and emotional health with the moon phases - and see what happens! Save this, share this! . Join Jewel - an all encompassing space to learn about your inner world and more! Link in bio @dreamlifelounge . . . . . .#moonphases #mooncycle #femininerituals #femininenature #moonmagic #mystic #newmoon #fullmoon #moonrituals #cyclesyncing #flowwithnature #emotionalhealing #healingwomen #womencircle #healyourheart #healyourbody #energyhealing #manifest #intentionsetting
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Have you been trying to manifest that one damn thing but it’s just not ready to fruit up yet? And perhaps your manifestation has led you to feel even more frustrated and somewhere, a tad bit more guilty and ashamed as if there’s something wrong with you, or perhaps you haven’t done enough or maybe you aren’t deserving enough.

So maybe you find yourself scooping through more manifestation tricks, more rituals, more rampant affirmations and writing your goals 100x a day and perhaps cannot stop staring at your vision board in the hope that MAYBE it works. Well, you are maniac manifesting. Unfortunately, none of it is giving you that result that you are craving.

Well, this is because while you are doing all the right things on the surface to call in your manifestations, beneath all that surface-level actions are vibrations that echo shame, guilt, and fear.

The thing is, you manifest from your subconscious mind as opposed to your conscious mind. Energetically, the visions that you visualize through your third eye chakra, can only be grounded into reality through your lower chakras – the root chakra, the sacral chakra, and the solar plexus chakra.

When there are vibrations of unworthiness, guilt, shame, fear in our subconscious mind from our childhood or growing up years, we keep projecting and looping the same vibration over and over again.

Here are some ways you tend to self-sabotage your manifestation:

  1. Sometimes you can feel guilty and ashamed for calling in your desires because you don’t feel worthy of what you are calling in. So even when you are ‘doing’ the manifestation rituals and affirmations, deep down you have a voice like – who do you think you are This unworthiness can cause you to make mistakes , sabotage opportunities, push away and deny and reject your own self out of your desires.
  2. You feel guilty and ashamed for not having your desires yet in form. So, acting out of your old programmings, you often tell yourself stories of how you must not have done ‘enough’ and push yourself to overfunction, overperform, and chase – which we know, is not an energy of receiving. This is an inner child shadow where you believe ‘it must be my fault’.
  3. A lot of us have a lot of religious and spiritual conditioning around manifestation being bad, dark or evil. The truth is nothing is devilish or dark – every practice and tool is more of what we make of it. However, when your subconscious perceives these as dark, it would want you to steer away from it and protect yourself. This can manifest as you doing the rituals but not actually ‘believing’ in them or judging yourself or punishing yourself when you do. It can also manifest as you avoiding your practices altogether and saying ‘it doesn’t work!’.
  4. If you are calling in something which no one around you has ever experienced, it can cause a lot of guilt and shame. So even when you are ‘doing’ the manifestation work, deep down you have voices like – who do you think you are? Why should ‘you’ receive this? What have you done to get this? And so on.
  5. If what you are asking for was not available to you growing up, your mind can have a really hard time to grasp that it’s possible. This can cause a lot of fear and anxiety around the ‘how’ and send you in a fight and flight mode (root chakra) which means you’d get triggered, your nervous system won’t be responding optimally and you’d be spending most of your energy in trying to find a solution outside or fix rather than trust the Universe to deliver you your manifestations.

This is why surface-level manifestation will never lead you to sustainable long-lasting results until you are willing to go deeper and clean up. This is because every time you try to instill new programming, your old shadows will show up. This creates friction, blockage, manifesting unwanted problems, and self-sabotaging behaviors. This is where Shadow Work and Inner Child Work helps.

Your wounds were not your fault. When we do the inner work, we really see through our programmings and release the attached guilt, shame, and fear we have been carrying through. A lot of times we realize it’s not even ours.

Start Shadow Work here.

Start Inner Child healing here.

Join DLL Membership to receive monthly self-work modules (plus bonus access to courses!) for your journey.

 

 

 

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Happy New Moon emperors 👑✨🌙 welcome to the real astrological new year 🔥✨ in our vedic traditions, and im sure many other indigenous culture, we begin a new cycle aka the new year with this season - also known as chait month. Working with these ancient cycles is the simplest & most beautiful way to decolonize yourself and fall back into the natural rhythm of the Universe. what's your sun, moon and rising - check for all three and see which resonates the most (or maybe all of them do!) 🤗👇 Save this post for future reference! 🤍 Share with your fellow mystics ✨🌙 . . . . Join Jewel, a one space access for mystical and spiritual learning courses, workshops and resources 🤍 link in bio @dreamlifelounge . . For 1:1 readings/sessions, check bio. . . . #newmoon #newmooninaries #ariesseason #ariesmoon #spiritualgrowth #astrologyguide #astrology #astrologytransits #moonmystic #healing #shadowwork #mystics #healers #lightworkers #zodiacsigns #spiritualcoach #wellness #moonmagic #selfhelp #selfdevelopment #womenempowerment #
Happy New Moon emperors 👑✨🌙 welcome to the real astrological new year 🔥✨ in our vedic traditions, and im sure many other indigenous culture, we begin a new cycle aka the new year with this season - also known as chait month. Working with these ancient cycles is the simplest & most beautiful way to decolonize yourself and fall back into the natural rhythm of the Universe. what's your sun, moon and rising - check for all three and see which resonates the most (or maybe all of them do!) 🤗👇 Save this post for future reference! 🤍 Share with your fellow mystics ✨🌙 . . . . Join Jewel, a one space access for mystical and spiritual learning courses, workshops and resources 🤍 link in bio @dreamlifelounge . . For 1:1 readings/sessions, check bio. . . . #newmoon #newmooninaries #ariesseason #ariesmoon #spiritualgrowth #astrologyguide #astrology #astrologytransits #moonmystic #healing #shadowwork #mystics #healers #lightworkers #zodiacsigns #spiritualcoach #wellness #moonmagic #selfhelp #selfdevelopment #womenempowerment #
Happy New Moon emperors 👑✨🌙 welcome to the real astrological new year 🔥✨ in our vedic traditions, and im sure many other indigenous culture, we begin a new cycle aka the new year with this season - also known as chait month. Working with these ancient cycles is the simplest & most beautiful way to decolonize yourself and fall back into the natural rhythm of the Universe. what's your sun, moon and rising - check for all three and see which resonates the most (or maybe all of them do!) 🤗👇 Save this post for future reference! 🤍 Share with your fellow mystics ✨🌙 . . . . Join Jewel, a one space access for mystical and spiritual learning courses, workshops and resources 🤍 link in bio @dreamlifelounge . . For 1:1 readings/sessions, check bio. . . . #newmoon #newmooninaries #ariesseason #ariesmoon #spiritualgrowth #astrologyguide #astrology #astrologytransits #moonmystic #healing #shadowwork #mystics #healers #lightworkers #zodiacsigns #spiritualcoach #wellness #moonmagic #selfhelp #selfdevelopment #womenempowerment #
Happy New Moon emperors 👑✨🌙 welcome to the real astrological new year 🔥✨ in our vedic traditions, and im sure many other indigenous culture, we begin a new cycle aka the new year with this season - also known as chait month. Working with these ancient cycles is the simplest & most beautiful way to decolonize yourself and fall back into the natural rhythm of the Universe. what's your sun, moon and rising - check for all three and see which resonates the most (or maybe all of them do!) 🤗👇 Save this post for future reference! 🤍 Share with your fellow mystics ✨🌙 . . . . Join Jewel, a one space access for mystical and spiritual learning courses, workshops and resources 🤍 link in bio @dreamlifelounge . . For 1:1 readings/sessions, check bio. . . . #newmoon #newmooninaries #ariesseason #ariesmoon #spiritualgrowth #astrologyguide #astrology #astrologytransits #moonmystic #healing #shadowwork #mystics #healers #lightworkers #zodiacsigns #spiritualcoach #wellness #moonmagic #selfhelp #selfdevelopment #womenempowerment #
Happy New Moon emperors 👑✨🌙 welcome to the real astrological new year 🔥✨ in our vedic traditions, and im sure many other indigenous culture, we begin a new cycle aka the new year with this season - also known as chait month. Working with these ancient cycles is the simplest & most beautiful way to decolonize yourself and fall back into the natural rhythm of the Universe. what's your sun, moon and rising - check for all three and see which resonates the most (or maybe all of them do!) 🤗👇 Save this post for future reference! 🤍 Share with your fellow mystics ✨🌙 . . . . Join Jewel, a one space access for mystical and spiritual learning courses, workshops and resources 🤍 link in bio @dreamlifelounge . . For 1:1 readings/sessions, check bio. . . . #newmoon #newmooninaries #ariesseason #ariesmoon #spiritualgrowth #astrologyguide #astrology #astrologytransits #moonmystic #healing #shadowwork #mystics #healers #lightworkers #zodiacsigns #spiritualcoach #wellness #moonmagic #selfhelp #selfdevelopment #womenempowerment #
Happy New Moon emperors 👑✨🌙 welcome to the real astrological new year 🔥✨ in our vedic traditions, and im sure many other indigenous culture, we begin a new cycle aka the new year with this season - also known as chait month. Working with these ancient cycles is the simplest & most beautiful way to decolonize yourself and fall back into the natural rhythm of the Universe. what's your sun, moon and rising - check for all three and see which resonates the most (or maybe all of them do!) 🤗👇 Save this post for future reference! 🤍 Share with your fellow mystics ✨🌙 . . . . Join Jewel, a one space access for mystical and spiritual learning courses, workshops and resources 🤍 link in bio @dreamlifelounge . . For 1:1 readings/sessions, check bio. . . . #newmoon #newmooninaries #ariesseason #ariesmoon #spiritualgrowth #astrologyguide #astrology #astrologytransits #moonmystic #healing #shadowwork #mystics #healers #lightworkers #zodiacsigns #spiritualcoach #wellness #moonmagic #selfhelp #selfdevelopment #womenempowerment #
Happy New Moon emperors 👑✨🌙 welcome to the real astrological new year 🔥✨ in our vedic traditions, and im sure many other indigenous culture, we begin a new cycle aka the new year with this season - also known as chait month. Working with these ancient cycles is the simplest & most beautiful way to decolonize yourself and fall back into the natural rhythm of the Universe. what's your sun, moon and rising - check for all three and see which resonates the most (or maybe all of them do!) 🤗👇 Save this post for future reference! 🤍 Share with your fellow mystics ✨🌙 . . . . Join Jewel, a one space access for mystical and spiritual learning courses, workshops and resources 🤍 link in bio @dreamlifelounge . . For 1:1 readings/sessions, check bio. . . . #newmoon #newmooninaries #ariesseason #ariesmoon #spiritualgrowth #astrologyguide #astrology #astrologytransits #moonmystic #healing #shadowwork #mystics #healers #lightworkers #zodiacsigns #spiritualcoach #wellness #moonmagic #selfhelp #selfdevelopment #womenempowerment #
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Have you been trying to manifest that one damn thing but it’s just not ready to fruit up yet? And perhaps your manifestation has led you to feel even more frustrated and somewhere, a tad bit more guilty and ashamed as if there’s something wrong with you, or perhaps you haven’t done enough or maybe you aren’t deserving enough.

So maybe you find yourself scooping through more manifestation tricks, more rituals, more rampant affirmations and writing your goals 100x a day and perhaps cannot stop staring at your vision board in the hope that MAYBE it works. Well, you are maniac manifesting. Unfortunately, none of it is giving you that result that you are craving.

Well, this is because while you are doing all the right things on the surface to call in your manifestations, beneath all that surface-level actions are vibrations that echo shame, guilt, and fear.

The thing is, you manifest from your subconscious mind as opposed to your conscious mind. Energetically, the visions that you visualize through your third eye chakra, can only be grounded into reality through your lower chakras – the root chakra, the sacral chakra, and the solar plexus chakra.

When there are vibrations of unworthiness, guilt, shame, fear in our subconscious mind from our childhood or growing up years, we keep projecting and looping the same vibration over and over again.

Here are some ways you tend to self-sabotage your manifestation:

  1. Sometimes you can feel guilty and ashamed for calling in your desires because you don’t feel worthy of what you are calling in. So even when you are ‘doing’ the manifestation rituals and affirmations, deep down you have a voice like – who do you think you are This unworthiness can cause you to make mistakes , sabotage opportunities, push away and deny and reject your own self out of your desires.
  2. You feel guilty and ashamed for not having your desires yet in form. So, acting out of your old programmings, you often tell yourself stories of how you must not have done ‘enough’ and push yourself to overfunction, overperform, and chase – which we know, is not an energy of receiving. This is an inner child shadow where you believe ‘it must be my fault’.
  3. A lot of us have a lot of religious and spiritual conditioning around manifestation being bad, dark or evil. The truth is nothing is devilish or dark – every practice and tool is more of what we make of it. However, when your subconscious perceives these as dark, it would want you to steer away from it and protect yourself. This can manifest as you doing the rituals but not actually ‘believing’ in them or judging yourself or punishing yourself when you do. It can also manifest as you avoiding your practices altogether and saying ‘it doesn’t work!’.
  4. If you are calling in something which no one around you has ever experienced, it can cause a lot of guilt and shame. So even when you are ‘doing’ the manifestation work, deep down you have voices like – who do you think you are? Why should ‘you’ receive this? What have you done to get this? And so on.
  5. If what you are asking for was not available to you growing up, your mind can have a really hard time to grasp that it’s possible. This can cause a lot of fear and anxiety around the ‘how’ and send you in a fight and flight mode (root chakra) which means you’d get triggered, your nervous system won’t be responding optimally and you’d be spending most of your energy in trying to find a solution outside or fix rather than trust the Universe to deliver you your manifestations.

This is why surface-level manifestation will never lead you to sustainable long-lasting results until you are willing to go deeper and clean up. This is because every time you try to instill new programming, your old shadows will show up. This creates friction, blockage, manifesting unwanted problems, and self-sabotaging behaviors. This is where Shadow Work and Inner Child Work helps.

Your wounds were not your fault. When we do the inner work, we really see through our programmings and release the attached guilt, shame, and fear we have been carrying through. A lot of times we realize it’s not even ours.

Start Shadow Work here.

Start Inner Child healing here.

Join DLL Membership to receive monthly self-work modules (plus bonus access to courses!) for your journey.

 

 

 

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Save this and share these prompts for the times when you are in the process of weeding and shifting. It doesn't matter how long you've been stuck in these cycles, what matters is that you believe you have the power to break out of them! <3 Much love and strength to everyone doing this brave work for themselves. . . . Join #Jewel, a mystical space to learn about rewiring your mindset, setting intentions, healing your inner child, shadow work and so much more - all in one place! Press link in bio and begin :) . . . . #breakingpatterns #karmiccycles #karmicpatterns #mindsetshift #healinggcodependency #spiiritualtools #consciousrelationships #povertyconsciousness #healyourself #healyourlife #healing #spirituality #empoweryourself
Save this and share these prompts for the times when you are in the process of weeding and shifting. It doesn't matter how long you've been stuck in these cycles, what matters is that you believe you have the power to break out of them! <3 Much love and strength to everyone doing this brave work for themselves. . . . Join #Jewel, a mystical space to learn about rewiring your mindset, setting intentions, healing your inner child, shadow work and so much more - all in one place! Press link in bio and begin :) . . . . #breakingpatterns #karmiccycles #karmicpatterns #mindsetshift #healinggcodependency #spiiritualtools #consciousrelationships #povertyconsciousness #healyourself #healyourlife #healing #spirituality #empoweryourself
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Have you been trying to manifest that one damn thing but it’s just not ready to fruit up yet? And perhaps your manifestation has led you to feel even more frustrated and somewhere, a tad bit more guilty and ashamed as if there’s something wrong with you, or perhaps you haven’t done enough or maybe you aren’t deserving enough.

So maybe you find yourself scooping through more manifestation tricks, more rituals, more rampant affirmations and writing your goals 100x a day and perhaps cannot stop staring at your vision board in the hope that MAYBE it works. Well, you are maniac manifesting. Unfortunately, none of it is giving you that result that you are craving.

Well, this is because while you are doing all the right things on the surface to call in your manifestations, beneath all that surface-level actions are vibrations that echo shame, guilt, and fear.

The thing is, you manifest from your subconscious mind as opposed to your conscious mind. Energetically, the visions that you visualize through your third eye chakra, can only be grounded into reality through your lower chakras – the root chakra, the sacral chakra, and the solar plexus chakra.

When there are vibrations of unworthiness, guilt, shame, fear in our subconscious mind from our childhood or growing up years, we keep projecting and looping the same vibration over and over again.

Here are some ways you tend to self-sabotage your manifestation:

  1. Sometimes you can feel guilty and ashamed for calling in your desires because you don’t feel worthy of what you are calling in. So even when you are ‘doing’ the manifestation rituals and affirmations, deep down you have a voice like – who do you think you are This unworthiness can cause you to make mistakes , sabotage opportunities, push away and deny and reject your own self out of your desires.
  2. You feel guilty and ashamed for not having your desires yet in form. So, acting out of your old programmings, you often tell yourself stories of how you must not have done ‘enough’ and push yourself to overfunction, overperform, and chase – which we know, is not an energy of receiving. This is an inner child shadow where you believe ‘it must be my fault’.
  3. A lot of us have a lot of religious and spiritual conditioning around manifestation being bad, dark or evil. The truth is nothing is devilish or dark – every practice and tool is more of what we make of it. However, when your subconscious perceives these as dark, it would want you to steer away from it and protect yourself. This can manifest as you doing the rituals but not actually ‘believing’ in them or judging yourself or punishing yourself when you do. It can also manifest as you avoiding your practices altogether and saying ‘it doesn’t work!’.
  4. If you are calling in something which no one around you has ever experienced, it can cause a lot of guilt and shame. So even when you are ‘doing’ the manifestation work, deep down you have voices like – who do you think you are? Why should ‘you’ receive this? What have you done to get this? And so on.
  5. If what you are asking for was not available to you growing up, your mind can have a really hard time to grasp that it’s possible. This can cause a lot of fear and anxiety around the ‘how’ and send you in a fight and flight mode (root chakra) which means you’d get triggered, your nervous system won’t be responding optimally and you’d be spending most of your energy in trying to find a solution outside or fix rather than trust the Universe to deliver you your manifestations.

This is why surface-level manifestation will never lead you to sustainable long-lasting results until you are willing to go deeper and clean up. This is because every time you try to instill new programming, your old shadows will show up. This creates friction, blockage, manifesting unwanted problems, and self-sabotaging behaviors. This is where Shadow Work and Inner Child Work helps.

Your wounds were not your fault. When we do the inner work, we really see through our programmings and release the attached guilt, shame, and fear we have been carrying through. A lot of times we realize it’s not even ours.

Start Shadow Work here.

Start Inner Child healing here.

Join DLL Membership to receive monthly self-work modules (plus bonus access to courses!) for your journey.

 

 

 

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The spleen is the oldest awareness energy center. This is where our survival , our instincts live - and then our primal fears too. When we dive a little deeper in Human Design, we can discover our fear gates here. The fear gates can help us differentiate between what is really a valid fear and what is say, an irrational fear. Each gate carries a potential fear, here in the spleen, Gate 48 carries the fear of inadequacy Gate 57 carries the fear of future Gate 44 carries the fear of past Gate 50 carries the fear of responsibility Gate 32 carries the fear of failure Gate 28 carries the fear of death Gate 18 carries the fear of authority Which one of these gates do you have? If you resonate with a fear but realize you don't have that gate, most likely you've picked it up growing up or with people around you. Two questions can really support when you're freaking out with these fears: 1. Is it mine? Is it an always fear or a today fear? 2. Have I picked it up? Want to understand how to identify your gates? Create a free HD chart on www.bodygraph.com and identify if you have any of these gates circled in your spleen. (Or book a Human Design reading with me - link in bio.) We have a workshop called Feeling Safe - OASIS inside the membership where we work with these fear gates and follow with a deep deconditioning practice to anchor into safety. Join #Jewel to access this workshop + tons of other workshop and resources! Link in bio @dreamlifelounge #nervousystem #humandesign #spleencentre #energycentre #humandesignsystem #definedcentres #undefinedhd #expandingconsciousness #selfhelp #selfheal #selflove #selfhelp #selfdevelopmenttools #releasingfear #feelingsafe #safety #safespace #saferelationship
The spleen is the oldest awareness energy center. This is where our survival , our instincts live - and then our primal fears too. When we dive a little deeper in Human Design, we can discover our fear gates here. The fear gates can help us differentiate between what is really a valid fear and what is say, an irrational fear. Each gate carries a potential fear, here in the spleen, Gate 48 carries the fear of inadequacy Gate 57 carries the fear of future Gate 44 carries the fear of past Gate 50 carries the fear of responsibility Gate 32 carries the fear of failure Gate 28 carries the fear of death Gate 18 carries the fear of authority Which one of these gates do you have? If you resonate with a fear but realize you don't have that gate, most likely you've picked it up growing up or with people around you. Two questions can really support when you're freaking out with these fears: 1. Is it mine? Is it an always fear or a today fear? 2. Have I picked it up? Want to understand how to identify your gates? Create a free HD chart on www.bodygraph.com and identify if you have any of these gates circled in your spleen. (Or book a Human Design reading with me - link in bio.) We have a workshop called Feeling Safe - OASIS inside the membership where we work with these fear gates and follow with a deep deconditioning practice to anchor into safety. Join #Jewel to access this workshop + tons of other workshop and resources! Link in bio @dreamlifelounge #nervousystem #humandesign #spleencentre #energycentre #humandesignsystem #definedcentres #undefinedhd #expandingconsciousness #selfhelp #selfheal #selflove #selfhelp #selfdevelopmenttools #releasingfear #feelingsafe #safety #safespace #saferelationship
The spleen is the oldest awareness energy center. This is where our survival , our instincts live - and then our primal fears too. When we dive a little deeper in Human Design, we can discover our fear gates here. The fear gates can help us differentiate between what is really a valid fear and what is say, an irrational fear. Each gate carries a potential fear, here in the spleen, Gate 48 carries the fear of inadequacy Gate 57 carries the fear of future Gate 44 carries the fear of past Gate 50 carries the fear of responsibility Gate 32 carries the fear of failure Gate 28 carries the fear of death Gate 18 carries the fear of authority Which one of these gates do you have? If you resonate with a fear but realize you don't have that gate, most likely you've picked it up growing up or with people around you. Two questions can really support when you're freaking out with these fears: 1. Is it mine? Is it an always fear or a today fear? 2. Have I picked it up? Want to understand how to identify your gates? Create a free HD chart on www.bodygraph.com and identify if you have any of these gates circled in your spleen. (Or book a Human Design reading with me - link in bio.) We have a workshop called Feeling Safe - OASIS inside the membership where we work with these fear gates and follow with a deep deconditioning practice to anchor into safety. Join #Jewel to access this workshop + tons of other workshop and resources! Link in bio @dreamlifelounge #nervousystem #humandesign #spleencentre #energycentre #humandesignsystem #definedcentres #undefinedhd #expandingconsciousness #selfhelp #selfheal #selflove #selfhelp #selfdevelopmenttools #releasingfear #feelingsafe #safety #safespace #saferelationship
The spleen is the oldest awareness energy center. This is where our survival , our instincts live - and then our primal fears too. When we dive a little deeper in Human Design, we can discover our fear gates here. The fear gates can help us differentiate between what is really a valid fear and what is say, an irrational fear. Each gate carries a potential fear, here in the spleen, Gate 48 carries the fear of inadequacy Gate 57 carries the fear of future Gate 44 carries the fear of past Gate 50 carries the fear of responsibility Gate 32 carries the fear of failure Gate 28 carries the fear of death Gate 18 carries the fear of authority Which one of these gates do you have? If you resonate with a fear but realize you don't have that gate, most likely you've picked it up growing up or with people around you. Two questions can really support when you're freaking out with these fears: 1. Is it mine? Is it an always fear or a today fear? 2. Have I picked it up? Want to understand how to identify your gates? Create a free HD chart on www.bodygraph.com and identify if you have any of these gates circled in your spleen. (Or book a Human Design reading with me - link in bio.) We have a workshop called Feeling Safe - OASIS inside the membership where we work with these fear gates and follow with a deep deconditioning practice to anchor into safety. Join #Jewel to access this workshop + tons of other workshop and resources! Link in bio @dreamlifelounge #nervousystem #humandesign #spleencentre #energycentre #humandesignsystem #definedcentres #undefinedhd #expandingconsciousness #selfhelp #selfheal #selflove #selfhelp #selfdevelopmenttools #releasingfear #feelingsafe #safety #safespace #saferelationship
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Have you been trying to manifest that one damn thing but it’s just not ready to fruit up yet? And perhaps your manifestation has led you to feel even more frustrated and somewhere, a tad bit more guilty and ashamed as if there’s something wrong with you, or perhaps you haven’t done enough or maybe you aren’t deserving enough.

So maybe you find yourself scooping through more manifestation tricks, more rituals, more rampant affirmations and writing your goals 100x a day and perhaps cannot stop staring at your vision board in the hope that MAYBE it works. Well, you are maniac manifesting. Unfortunately, none of it is giving you that result that you are craving.

Well, this is because while you are doing all the right things on the surface to call in your manifestations, beneath all that surface-level actions are vibrations that echo shame, guilt, and fear.

The thing is, you manifest from your subconscious mind as opposed to your conscious mind. Energetically, the visions that you visualize through your third eye chakra, can only be grounded into reality through your lower chakras – the root chakra, the sacral chakra, and the solar plexus chakra.

When there are vibrations of unworthiness, guilt, shame, fear in our subconscious mind from our childhood or growing up years, we keep projecting and looping the same vibration over and over again.

Here are some ways you tend to self-sabotage your manifestation:

  1. Sometimes you can feel guilty and ashamed for calling in your desires because you don’t feel worthy of what you are calling in. So even when you are ‘doing’ the manifestation rituals and affirmations, deep down you have a voice like – who do you think you are This unworthiness can cause you to make mistakes , sabotage opportunities, push away and deny and reject your own self out of your desires.
  2. You feel guilty and ashamed for not having your desires yet in form. So, acting out of your old programmings, you often tell yourself stories of how you must not have done ‘enough’ and push yourself to overfunction, overperform, and chase – which we know, is not an energy of receiving. This is an inner child shadow where you believe ‘it must be my fault’.
  3. A lot of us have a lot of religious and spiritual conditioning around manifestation being bad, dark or evil. The truth is nothing is devilish or dark – every practice and tool is more of what we make of it. However, when your subconscious perceives these as dark, it would want you to steer away from it and protect yourself. This can manifest as you doing the rituals but not actually ‘believing’ in them or judging yourself or punishing yourself when you do. It can also manifest as you avoiding your practices altogether and saying ‘it doesn’t work!’.
  4. If you are calling in something which no one around you has ever experienced, it can cause a lot of guilt and shame. So even when you are ‘doing’ the manifestation work, deep down you have voices like – who do you think you are? Why should ‘you’ receive this? What have you done to get this? And so on.
  5. If what you are asking for was not available to you growing up, your mind can have a really hard time to grasp that it’s possible. This can cause a lot of fear and anxiety around the ‘how’ and send you in a fight and flight mode (root chakra) which means you’d get triggered, your nervous system won’t be responding optimally and you’d be spending most of your energy in trying to find a solution outside or fix rather than trust the Universe to deliver you your manifestations.

This is why surface-level manifestation will never lead you to sustainable long-lasting results until you are willing to go deeper and clean up. This is because every time you try to instill new programming, your old shadows will show up. This creates friction, blockage, manifesting unwanted problems, and self-sabotaging behaviors. This is where Shadow Work and Inner Child Work helps.

Your wounds were not your fault. When we do the inner work, we really see through our programmings and release the attached guilt, shame, and fear we have been carrying through. A lot of times we realize it’s not even ours.

Start Shadow Work here.

Start Inner Child healing here.

Join DLL Membership to receive monthly self-work modules (plus bonus access to courses!) for your journey.

 

 

 

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Have you been trying to manifest that one damn thing but it’s just not ready to fruit up yet? And perhaps your manifestation has led you to feel even more frustrated and somewhere, a tad bit more guilty and ashamed as if there’s something wrong with you, or perhaps you haven’t done enough or maybe you aren’t deserving enough.

So maybe you find yourself scooping through more manifestation tricks, more rituals, more rampant affirmations and writing your goals 100x a day and perhaps cannot stop staring at your vision board in the hope that MAYBE it works. Well, you are maniac manifesting. Unfortunately, none of it is giving you that result that you are craving.

Well, this is because while you are doing all the right things on the surface to call in your manifestations, beneath all that surface-level actions are vibrations that echo shame, guilt, and fear.

The thing is, you manifest from your subconscious mind as opposed to your conscious mind. Energetically, the visions that you visualize through your third eye chakra, can only be grounded into reality through your lower chakras – the root chakra, the sacral chakra, and the solar plexus chakra.

When there are vibrations of unworthiness, guilt, shame, fear in our subconscious mind from our childhood or growing up years, we keep projecting and looping the same vibration over and over again.

Here are some ways you tend to self-sabotage your manifestation:

  1. Sometimes you can feel guilty and ashamed for calling in your desires because you don’t feel worthy of what you are calling in. So even when you are ‘doing’ the manifestation rituals and affirmations, deep down you have a voice like – who do you think you are This unworthiness can cause you to make mistakes , sabotage opportunities, push away and deny and reject your own self out of your desires.
  2. You feel guilty and ashamed for not having your desires yet in form. So, acting out of your old programmings, you often tell yourself stories of how you must not have done ‘enough’ and push yourself to overfunction, overperform, and chase – which we know, is not an energy of receiving. This is an inner child shadow where you believe ‘it must be my fault’.
  3. A lot of us have a lot of religious and spiritual conditioning around manifestation being bad, dark or evil. The truth is nothing is devilish or dark – every practice and tool is more of what we make of it. However, when your subconscious perceives these as dark, it would want you to steer away from it and protect yourself. This can manifest as you doing the rituals but not actually ‘believing’ in them or judging yourself or punishing yourself when you do. It can also manifest as you avoiding your practices altogether and saying ‘it doesn’t work!’.
  4. If you are calling in something which no one around you has ever experienced, it can cause a lot of guilt and shame. So even when you are ‘doing’ the manifestation work, deep down you have voices like – who do you think you are? Why should ‘you’ receive this? What have you done to get this? And so on.
  5. If what you are asking for was not available to you growing up, your mind can have a really hard time to grasp that it’s possible. This can cause a lot of fear and anxiety around the ‘how’ and send you in a fight and flight mode (root chakra) which means you’d get triggered, your nervous system won’t be responding optimally and you’d be spending most of your energy in trying to find a solution outside or fix rather than trust the Universe to deliver you your manifestations.

This is why surface-level manifestation will never lead you to sustainable long-lasting results until you are willing to go deeper and clean up. This is because every time you try to instill new programming, your old shadows will show up. This creates friction, blockage, manifesting unwanted problems, and self-sabotaging behaviors. This is where Shadow Work and Inner Child Work helps.

Your wounds were not your fault. When we do the inner work, we really see through our programmings and release the attached guilt, shame, and fear we have been carrying through. A lot of times we realize it’s not even ours.

Start Shadow Work here.

Start Inner Child healing here.

Join DLL Membership to receive monthly self-work modules (plus bonus access to courses!) for your journey.

 

 

 

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Have you been trying to manifest that one damn thing but it’s just not ready to fruit up yet? And perhaps your manifestation has led you to feel even more frustrated and somewhere, a tad bit more guilty and ashamed as if there’s something wrong with you, or perhaps you haven’t done enough or maybe you aren’t deserving enough.

So maybe you find yourself scooping through more manifestation tricks, more rituals, more rampant affirmations and writing your goals 100x a day and perhaps cannot stop staring at your vision board in the hope that MAYBE it works. Well, you are maniac manifesting. Unfortunately, none of it is giving you that result that you are craving.

Well, this is because while you are doing all the right things on the surface to call in your manifestations, beneath all that surface-level actions are vibrations that echo shame, guilt, and fear.

The thing is, you manifest from your subconscious mind as opposed to your conscious mind. Energetically, the visions that you visualize through your third eye chakra, can only be grounded into reality through your lower chakras – the root chakra, the sacral chakra, and the solar plexus chakra.

When there are vibrations of unworthiness, guilt, shame, fear in our subconscious mind from our childhood or growing up years, we keep projecting and looping the same vibration over and over again.

Here are some ways you tend to self-sabotage your manifestation:

  1. Sometimes you can feel guilty and ashamed for calling in your desires because you don’t feel worthy of what you are calling in. So even when you are ‘doing’ the manifestation rituals and affirmations, deep down you have a voice like – who do you think you are This unworthiness can cause you to make mistakes , sabotage opportunities, push away and deny and reject your own self out of your desires.
  2. You feel guilty and ashamed for not having your desires yet in form. So, acting out of your old programmings, you often tell yourself stories of how you must not have done ‘enough’ and push yourself to overfunction, overperform, and chase – which we know, is not an energy of receiving. This is an inner child shadow where you believe ‘it must be my fault’.
  3. A lot of us have a lot of religious and spiritual conditioning around manifestation being bad, dark or evil. The truth is nothing is devilish or dark – every practice and tool is more of what we make of it. However, when your subconscious perceives these as dark, it would want you to steer away from it and protect yourself. This can manifest as you doing the rituals but not actually ‘believing’ in them or judging yourself or punishing yourself when you do. It can also manifest as you avoiding your practices altogether and saying ‘it doesn’t work!’.
  4. If you are calling in something which no one around you has ever experienced, it can cause a lot of guilt and shame. So even when you are ‘doing’ the manifestation work, deep down you have voices like – who do you think you are? Why should ‘you’ receive this? What have you done to get this? And so on.
  5. If what you are asking for was not available to you growing up, your mind can have a really hard time to grasp that it’s possible. This can cause a lot of fear and anxiety around the ‘how’ and send you in a fight and flight mode (root chakra) which means you’d get triggered, your nervous system won’t be responding optimally and you’d be spending most of your energy in trying to find a solution outside or fix rather than trust the Universe to deliver you your manifestations.

This is why surface-level manifestation will never lead you to sustainable long-lasting results until you are willing to go deeper and clean up. This is because every time you try to instill new programming, your old shadows will show up. This creates friction, blockage, manifesting unwanted problems, and self-sabotaging behaviors. This is where Shadow Work and Inner Child Work helps.

Your wounds were not your fault. When we do the inner work, we really see through our programmings and release the attached guilt, shame, and fear we have been carrying through. A lot of times we realize it’s not even ours.

Start Shadow Work here.

Start Inner Child healing here.

Join DLL Membership to receive monthly self-work modules (plus bonus access to courses!) for your journey.

 

 

 

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