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And if you want MORE, because astrology is truly such a beautiful guide to do the healing and shadow work, a 2-hour workshop is landing this Saturday called Money & Worth via Astrology. This is a workshop for Jewel membership but everyone can attend it and even get a replay for the next week. Price: 17$//1200 INR. DM to register @dreamlifelounge . Or get this + everything more inside JEWEL for 17$//1200 INR per month! Link in bio for Jewel sign up! . We will be indulging in: 2nd house and worth Planets in 2nd house 2nd house signs Embodiment practices Journaling See you? :) . . . . . . . . #astrology #astro #secondhouse #worth #selfworth #spiritualhealing #selflove #meditatedaily #dailymeditation #deephealing #spiritualknowledge #alignyourchakras #healyourheart #soulhealing #soulguidance #natalchart #astrologyguide #healingworkshop #humandesign #embodiment #selfawareness #selfdiscovery
And if you want MORE, because astrology is truly such a beautiful guide to do the healing and shadow work, a 2-hour workshop is landing this Saturday called Money & Worth via Astrology. This is a workshop for Jewel membership but everyone can attend it and even get a replay for the next week. Price: 17$//1200 INR. DM to register @dreamlifelounge . Or get this + everything more inside JEWEL for 17$//1200 INR per month! Link in bio for Jewel sign up! . We will be indulging in: 2nd house and worth Planets in 2nd house 2nd house signs Embodiment practices Journaling See you? :) . . . . . . . . #astrology #astro #secondhouse #worth #selfworth #spiritualhealing #selflove #meditatedaily #dailymeditation #deephealing #spiritualknowledge #alignyourchakras #healyourheart #soulhealing #soulguidance #natalchart #astrologyguide #healingworkshop #humandesign #embodiment #selfawareness #selfdiscovery
And if you want MORE, because astrology is truly such a beautiful guide to do the healing and shadow work, a 2-hour workshop is landing this Saturday called Money & Worth via Astrology. This is a workshop for Jewel membership but everyone can attend it and even get a replay for the next week. Price: 17$//1200 INR. DM to register @dreamlifelounge . Or get this + everything more inside JEWEL for 17$//1200 INR per month! Link in bio for Jewel sign up! . We will be indulging in: 2nd house and worth Planets in 2nd house 2nd house signs Embodiment practices Journaling See you? :) . . . . . . . . #astrology #astro #secondhouse #worth #selfworth #spiritualhealing #selflove #meditatedaily #dailymeditation #deephealing #spiritualknowledge #alignyourchakras #healyourheart #soulhealing #soulguidance #natalchart #astrologyguide #healingworkshop #humandesign #embodiment #selfawareness #selfdiscovery
And if you want MORE, because astrology is truly such a beautiful guide to do the healing and shadow work, a 2-hour workshop is landing this Saturday called Money & Worth via Astrology. This is a workshop for Jewel membership but everyone can attend it and even get a replay for the next week. Price: 17$//1200 INR. DM to register @dreamlifelounge . Or get this + everything more inside JEWEL for 17$//1200 INR per month! Link in bio for Jewel sign up! . We will be indulging in: 2nd house and worth Planets in 2nd house 2nd house signs Embodiment practices Journaling See you? :) . . . . . . . . #astrology #astro #secondhouse #worth #selfworth #spiritualhealing #selflove #meditatedaily #dailymeditation #deephealing #spiritualknowledge #alignyourchakras #healyourheart #soulhealing #soulguidance #natalchart #astrologyguide #healingworkshop #humandesign #embodiment #selfawareness #selfdiscovery
And if you want MORE, because astrology is truly such a beautiful guide to do the healing and shadow work, a 2-hour workshop is landing this Saturday called Money & Worth via Astrology. This is a workshop for Jewel membership but everyone can attend it and even get a replay for the next week. Price: 17$//1200 INR. DM to register @dreamlifelounge . Or get this + everything more inside JEWEL for 17$//1200 INR per month! Link in bio for Jewel sign up! . We will be indulging in: 2nd house and worth Planets in 2nd house 2nd house signs Embodiment practices Journaling See you? :) . . . . . . . . #astrology #astro #secondhouse #worth #selfworth #spiritualhealing #selflove #meditatedaily #dailymeditation #deephealing #spiritualknowledge #alignyourchakras #healyourheart #soulhealing #soulguidance #natalchart #astrologyguide #healingworkshop #humandesign #embodiment #selfawareness #selfdiscovery
And if you want MORE, because astrology is truly such a beautiful guide to do the healing and shadow work, a 2-hour workshop is landing this Saturday called Money & Worth via Astrology. This is a workshop for Jewel membership but everyone can attend it and even get a replay for the next week. Price: 17$//1200 INR. DM to register @dreamlifelounge . Or get this + everything more inside JEWEL for 17$//1200 INR per month! Link in bio for Jewel sign up! . We will be indulging in: 2nd house and worth Planets in 2nd house 2nd house signs Embodiment practices Journaling See you? :) . . . . . . . . #astrology #astro #secondhouse #worth #selfworth #spiritualhealing #selflove #meditatedaily #dailymeditation #deephealing #spiritualknowledge #alignyourchakras #healyourheart #soulhealing #soulguidance #natalchart #astrologyguide #healingworkshop #humandesign #embodiment #selfawareness #selfdiscovery
And if you want MORE, because astrology is truly such a beautiful guide to do the healing and shadow work, a 2-hour workshop is landing this Saturday called Money & Worth via Astrology. This is a workshop for Jewel membership but everyone can attend it and even get a replay for the next week. Price: 17$//1200 INR. DM to register @dreamlifelounge . Or get this + everything more inside JEWEL for 17$//1200 INR per month! Link in bio for Jewel sign up! . We will be indulging in: 2nd house and worth Planets in 2nd house 2nd house signs Embodiment practices Journaling See you? :) . . . . . . . . #astrology #astro #secondhouse #worth #selfworth #spiritualhealing #selflove #meditatedaily #dailymeditation #deephealing #spiritualknowledge #alignyourchakras #healyourheart #soulhealing #soulguidance #natalchart #astrologyguide #healingworkshop #humandesign #embodiment #selfawareness #selfdiscovery
And if you want MORE, because astrology is truly such a beautiful guide to do the healing and shadow work, a 2-hour workshop is landing this Saturday called Money & Worth via Astrology. This is a workshop for Jewel membership but everyone can attend it and even get a replay for the next week. Price: 17$//1200 INR. DM to register @dreamlifelounge . Or get this + everything more inside JEWEL for 17$//1200 INR per month! Link in bio for Jewel sign up! . We will be indulging in: 2nd house and worth Planets in 2nd house 2nd house signs Embodiment practices Journaling See you? :) . . . . . . . . #astrology #astro #secondhouse #worth #selfworth #spiritualhealing #selflove #meditatedaily #dailymeditation #deephealing #spiritualknowledge #alignyourchakras #healyourheart #soulhealing #soulguidance #natalchart #astrologyguide #healingworkshop #humandesign #embodiment #selfawareness #selfdiscovery
And if you want MORE, because astrology is truly such a beautiful guide to do the healing and shadow work, a 2-hour workshop is landing this Saturday called Money & Worth via Astrology. This is a workshop for Jewel membership but everyone can attend it and even get a replay for the next week. Price: 17$//1200 INR. DM to register @dreamlifelounge . Or get this + everything more inside JEWEL for 17$//1200 INR per month! Link in bio for Jewel sign up! . We will be indulging in: 2nd house and worth Planets in 2nd house 2nd house signs Embodiment practices Journaling See you? :) . . . . . . . . #astrology #astro #secondhouse #worth #selfworth #spiritualhealing #selflove #meditatedaily #dailymeditation #deephealing #spiritualknowledge #alignyourchakras #healyourheart #soulhealing #soulguidance #natalchart #astrologyguide #healingworkshop #humandesign #embodiment #selfawareness #selfdiscovery
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Have you been trying to manifest that one damn thing but it’s just not ready to fruit up yet? And perhaps your manifestation has led you to feel even more frustrated and somewhere, a tad bit more guilty and ashamed as if there’s something wrong with you, or perhaps you haven’t done enough or maybe you aren’t deserving enough.

So maybe you find yourself scooping through more manifestation tricks, more rituals, more rampant affirmations and writing your goals 100x a day and perhaps cannot stop staring at your vision board in the hope that MAYBE it works. Well, you are maniac manifesting. Unfortunately, none of it is giving you that result that you are craving.

Well, this is because while you are doing all the right things on the surface to call in your manifestations, beneath all that surface-level actions are vibrations that echo shame, guilt, and fear.

The thing is, you manifest from your subconscious mind as opposed to your conscious mind. Energetically, the visions that you visualize through your third eye chakra, can only be grounded into reality through your lower chakras – the root chakra, the sacral chakra, and the solar plexus chakra.

When there are vibrations of unworthiness, guilt, shame, fear in our subconscious mind from our childhood or growing up years, we keep projecting and looping the same vibration over and over again.

Here are some ways you tend to self-sabotage your manifestation:

  1. Sometimes you can feel guilty and ashamed for calling in your desires because you don’t feel worthy of what you are calling in. So even when you are ‘doing’ the manifestation rituals and affirmations, deep down you have a voice like – who do you think you are This unworthiness can cause you to make mistakes , sabotage opportunities, push away and deny and reject your own self out of your desires.
  2. You feel guilty and ashamed for not having your desires yet in form. So, acting out of your old programmings, you often tell yourself stories of how you must not have done ‘enough’ and push yourself to overfunction, overperform, and chase – which we know, is not an energy of receiving. This is an inner child shadow where you believe ‘it must be my fault’.
  3. A lot of us have a lot of religious and spiritual conditioning around manifestation being bad, dark or evil. The truth is nothing is devilish or dark – every practice and tool is more of what we make of it. However, when your subconscious perceives these as dark, it would want you to steer away from it and protect yourself. This can manifest as you doing the rituals but not actually ‘believing’ in them or judging yourself or punishing yourself when you do. It can also manifest as you avoiding your practices altogether and saying ‘it doesn’t work!’.
  4. If you are calling in something which no one around you has ever experienced, it can cause a lot of guilt and shame. So even when you are ‘doing’ the manifestation work, deep down you have voices like – who do you think you are? Why should ‘you’ receive this? What have you done to get this? And so on.
  5. If what you are asking for was not available to you growing up, your mind can have a really hard time to grasp that it’s possible. This can cause a lot of fear and anxiety around the ‘how’ and send you in a fight and flight mode (root chakra) which means you’d get triggered, your nervous system won’t be responding optimally and you’d be spending most of your energy in trying to find a solution outside or fix rather than trust the Universe to deliver you your manifestations.

This is why surface-level manifestation will never lead you to sustainable long-lasting results until you are willing to go deeper and clean up. This is because every time you try to instill new programming, your old shadows will show up. This creates friction, blockage, manifesting unwanted problems, and self-sabotaging behaviors. This is where Shadow Work and Inner Child Work helps.

Your wounds were not your fault. When we do the inner work, we really see through our programmings and release the attached guilt, shame, and fear we have been carrying through. A lot of times we realize it’s not even ours.

Start Shadow Work here.

Start Inner Child healing here.

Join DLL Membership to receive monthly self-work modules (plus bonus access to courses!) for your journey.

 

 

 

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And we will be discussing all these four inside the workshop! See the thing is, we all have a unique relationship with money. Not all rules apply to all. So often we might have resistance to our own wealth creation because we are at odds with our own desires. We might have shame in our unique money relationship. But what if you didn't have to change your mindset around that but do some shadow work to embrace it because that's your unique gold magnetism which draws in your signature wealth. I call it authentic wealth code. Example- i have had shame around spending on skin care big time yet when i studied my second house placements i understood that even though it is so luxurious and maybe slightly frivolous it is actually authentic money code. It makes me sooo wealthy and abundant even if its not pricey necessarily. This is what we are working with when we say our unique money relationship that's what 2nd house explains. And that's what I'd be sharing on 26th! See you inside, dm @dreamlifelounge to register. Yes replay available! ❤️ #moneymindset #moneyrelationship #wealthandembodiment #wealthcreation #moneymanifestation #abundance1111 #sacralchakra #healingyourworth #selfworth #selflove #healing #spiritualwork #energeticwork #divinefeminine #femininewisdom #femaleleadership
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Have you been trying to manifest that one damn thing but it’s just not ready to fruit up yet? And perhaps your manifestation has led you to feel even more frustrated and somewhere, a tad bit more guilty and ashamed as if there’s something wrong with you, or perhaps you haven’t done enough or maybe you aren’t deserving enough.

So maybe you find yourself scooping through more manifestation tricks, more rituals, more rampant affirmations and writing your goals 100x a day and perhaps cannot stop staring at your vision board in the hope that MAYBE it works. Well, you are maniac manifesting. Unfortunately, none of it is giving you that result that you are craving.

Well, this is because while you are doing all the right things on the surface to call in your manifestations, beneath all that surface-level actions are vibrations that echo shame, guilt, and fear.

The thing is, you manifest from your subconscious mind as opposed to your conscious mind. Energetically, the visions that you visualize through your third eye chakra, can only be grounded into reality through your lower chakras – the root chakra, the sacral chakra, and the solar plexus chakra.

When there are vibrations of unworthiness, guilt, shame, fear in our subconscious mind from our childhood or growing up years, we keep projecting and looping the same vibration over and over again.

Here are some ways you tend to self-sabotage your manifestation:

  1. Sometimes you can feel guilty and ashamed for calling in your desires because you don’t feel worthy of what you are calling in. So even when you are ‘doing’ the manifestation rituals and affirmations, deep down you have a voice like – who do you think you are This unworthiness can cause you to make mistakes , sabotage opportunities, push away and deny and reject your own self out of your desires.
  2. You feel guilty and ashamed for not having your desires yet in form. So, acting out of your old programmings, you often tell yourself stories of how you must not have done ‘enough’ and push yourself to overfunction, overperform, and chase – which we know, is not an energy of receiving. This is an inner child shadow where you believe ‘it must be my fault’.
  3. A lot of us have a lot of religious and spiritual conditioning around manifestation being bad, dark or evil. The truth is nothing is devilish or dark – every practice and tool is more of what we make of it. However, when your subconscious perceives these as dark, it would want you to steer away from it and protect yourself. This can manifest as you doing the rituals but not actually ‘believing’ in them or judging yourself or punishing yourself when you do. It can also manifest as you avoiding your practices altogether and saying ‘it doesn’t work!’.
  4. If you are calling in something which no one around you has ever experienced, it can cause a lot of guilt and shame. So even when you are ‘doing’ the manifestation work, deep down you have voices like – who do you think you are? Why should ‘you’ receive this? What have you done to get this? And so on.
  5. If what you are asking for was not available to you growing up, your mind can have a really hard time to grasp that it’s possible. This can cause a lot of fear and anxiety around the ‘how’ and send you in a fight and flight mode (root chakra) which means you’d get triggered, your nervous system won’t be responding optimally and you’d be spending most of your energy in trying to find a solution outside or fix rather than trust the Universe to deliver you your manifestations.

This is why surface-level manifestation will never lead you to sustainable long-lasting results until you are willing to go deeper and clean up. This is because every time you try to instill new programming, your old shadows will show up. This creates friction, blockage, manifesting unwanted problems, and self-sabotaging behaviors. This is where Shadow Work and Inner Child Work helps.

Your wounds were not your fault. When we do the inner work, we really see through our programmings and release the attached guilt, shame, and fear we have been carrying through. A lot of times we realize it’s not even ours.

Start Shadow Work here.

Start Inner Child healing here.

Join DLL Membership to receive monthly self-work modules (plus bonus access to courses!) for your journey.

 

 

 

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Topical astrology has divided a natal chart into 12 houses as per the 12 zodiac signs. These 12 houses represent the 12 different aspects of life for an individual on this planet. In my opinion, this is an excellent guide to understanding life as a whole pie than just a slice of it. Most often, with the obvious conditioning, we find ourselves obsessing about one or three areas of our life. For me, this pie of 12 houses shows an expansive zoom-out picture of what all life entails - and how much we miss out when we are centered on just one or two aspects of it. There are 12 areas of life to look at and as per our soul contract and cosmic transits, we will have a chance to decondition, learn, and embody each aspect at different times of our lives. Of course, the timing for all of us for each aspect will differ. When we understand this, phew! It's such a permission slip to stop comparing ourselves and our lives with that of another soul with another very unique soul print and soul contract. Read more on the blog! . . . 🔥Join us this Saturday for an astrology workshop on 2nd house- all about understanding your worth + relationship with money via astro! DM to book your spot! Or Join #Jewel to get free access! . . . . . . . . #astrology #houses #selfhelp #selfdiscovery #humandesign #spirituality #higherconsciousness #dailyblogs #mindfulness #meditation #astroworkshop #cosmicconsciousness #energyclearing #spiritualawakening #spiritualhealing #vibratehigher #femininewisdom #higherawareness #spiritualknowledge #higherself #healing #selfcare #breathwork #tarot
Topical astrology has divided a natal chart into 12 houses as per the 12 zodiac signs. These 12 houses represent the 12 different aspects of life for an individual on this planet. In my opinion, this is an excellent guide to understanding life as a whole pie than just a slice of it. Most often, with the obvious conditioning, we find ourselves obsessing about one or three areas of our life. For me, this pie of 12 houses shows an expansive zoom-out picture of what all life entails - and how much we miss out when we are centered on just one or two aspects of it. There are 12 areas of life to look at and as per our soul contract and cosmic transits, we will have a chance to decondition, learn, and embody each aspect at different times of our lives. Of course, the timing for all of us for each aspect will differ. When we understand this, phew! It's such a permission slip to stop comparing ourselves and our lives with that of another soul with another very unique soul print and soul contract. Read more on the blog! . . . 🔥Join us this Saturday for an astrology workshop on 2nd house- all about understanding your worth + relationship with money via astro! DM to book your spot! Or Join #Jewel to get free access! . . . . . . . . #astrology #houses #selfhelp #selfdiscovery #humandesign #spirituality #higherconsciousness #dailyblogs #mindfulness #meditation #astroworkshop #cosmicconsciousness #energyclearing #spiritualawakening #spiritualhealing #vibratehigher #femininewisdom #higherawareness #spiritualknowledge #higherself #healing #selfcare #breathwork #tarot
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Have you been trying to manifest that one damn thing but it’s just not ready to fruit up yet? And perhaps your manifestation has led you to feel even more frustrated and somewhere, a tad bit more guilty and ashamed as if there’s something wrong with you, or perhaps you haven’t done enough or maybe you aren’t deserving enough.

So maybe you find yourself scooping through more manifestation tricks, more rituals, more rampant affirmations and writing your goals 100x a day and perhaps cannot stop staring at your vision board in the hope that MAYBE it works. Well, you are maniac manifesting. Unfortunately, none of it is giving you that result that you are craving.

Well, this is because while you are doing all the right things on the surface to call in your manifestations, beneath all that surface-level actions are vibrations that echo shame, guilt, and fear.

The thing is, you manifest from your subconscious mind as opposed to your conscious mind. Energetically, the visions that you visualize through your third eye chakra, can only be grounded into reality through your lower chakras – the root chakra, the sacral chakra, and the solar plexus chakra.

When there are vibrations of unworthiness, guilt, shame, fear in our subconscious mind from our childhood or growing up years, we keep projecting and looping the same vibration over and over again.

Here are some ways you tend to self-sabotage your manifestation:

  1. Sometimes you can feel guilty and ashamed for calling in your desires because you don’t feel worthy of what you are calling in. So even when you are ‘doing’ the manifestation rituals and affirmations, deep down you have a voice like – who do you think you are This unworthiness can cause you to make mistakes , sabotage opportunities, push away and deny and reject your own self out of your desires.
  2. You feel guilty and ashamed for not having your desires yet in form. So, acting out of your old programmings, you often tell yourself stories of how you must not have done ‘enough’ and push yourself to overfunction, overperform, and chase – which we know, is not an energy of receiving. This is an inner child shadow where you believe ‘it must be my fault’.
  3. A lot of us have a lot of religious and spiritual conditioning around manifestation being bad, dark or evil. The truth is nothing is devilish or dark – every practice and tool is more of what we make of it. However, when your subconscious perceives these as dark, it would want you to steer away from it and protect yourself. This can manifest as you doing the rituals but not actually ‘believing’ in them or judging yourself or punishing yourself when you do. It can also manifest as you avoiding your practices altogether and saying ‘it doesn’t work!’.
  4. If you are calling in something which no one around you has ever experienced, it can cause a lot of guilt and shame. So even when you are ‘doing’ the manifestation work, deep down you have voices like – who do you think you are? Why should ‘you’ receive this? What have you done to get this? And so on.
  5. If what you are asking for was not available to you growing up, your mind can have a really hard time to grasp that it’s possible. This can cause a lot of fear and anxiety around the ‘how’ and send you in a fight and flight mode (root chakra) which means you’d get triggered, your nervous system won’t be responding optimally and you’d be spending most of your energy in trying to find a solution outside or fix rather than trust the Universe to deliver you your manifestations.

This is why surface-level manifestation will never lead you to sustainable long-lasting results until you are willing to go deeper and clean up. This is because every time you try to instill new programming, your old shadows will show up. This creates friction, blockage, manifesting unwanted problems, and self-sabotaging behaviors. This is where Shadow Work and Inner Child Work helps.

Your wounds were not your fault. When we do the inner work, we really see through our programmings and release the attached guilt, shame, and fear we have been carrying through. A lot of times we realize it’s not even ours.

Start Shadow Work here.

Start Inner Child healing here.

Join DLL Membership to receive monthly self-work modules (plus bonus access to courses!) for your journey.

 

 

 

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A brand new online workshop is upcoming next Saturday 26/11/22 all about self worth & money. While i have talked about how money is connected to worth many times, what's interesting is that for the first time I'll be teaching this through the astrological lens... So get your natal charts printed (www.astro.com) bring a pen and notebook - and ofc your mats to set the scene and take this journey with me. We will be discussing every sign + planet placement in your 2nd house and yes it's super beginner's friendly so even if you know nothing about astrology you're good to go! But obviously this is not just information, this is also embodiment. And so the later part of the workshop is incorporated with journaling + guided embodiment practices along with deep meditation practice to sink deeper into your 2nd house energy of self worth & money. Yess! We all have such beautiful unique relationship with worth + money and in this workshop you won't be just discovering your own unique blueprint and style of working with it but will also be embodying it deep in your mind, body, soul...almost like an energetic remembrance. Date: 26.11.22 Time: 7:00 pm ist (replay available incase you can't make up live) Price: 17$ // 1200 inr to access this workshop OR Free if you're a Jewel member! 💎 (17$/1200 inr for everything inside #Jewel!) Dm to book your spot! 💌 @dreamlifelounge @shivaanibaghel . . . . . #astrology #embodiment #journaling #selfworth #moneymindset #abundance #worthiness #moneyenergy #moneyrelationship #abundance #humandesign #femaleleadership #energyhealing #1111 #manifesting #healing #moneyblocks #wealthembodiment #mindsethealing #subconsciousreprogramming #breakingpatterns #secondhouse #taurus #scorpio #healingworkshops
A brand new online workshop is upcoming next Saturday 26/11/22 all about self worth & money. While i have talked about how money is connected to worth many times, what's interesting is that for the first time I'll be teaching this through the astrological lens... So get your natal charts printed (www.astro.com) bring a pen and notebook - and ofc your mats to set the scene and take this journey with me. We will be discussing every sign + planet placement in your 2nd house and yes it's super beginner's friendly so even if you know nothing about astrology you're good to go! But obviously this is not just information, this is also embodiment. And so the later part of the workshop is incorporated with journaling + guided embodiment practices along with deep meditation practice to sink deeper into your 2nd house energy of self worth & money. Yess! We all have such beautiful unique relationship with worth + money and in this workshop you won't be just discovering your own unique blueprint and style of working with it but will also be embodying it deep in your mind, body, soul...almost like an energetic remembrance. Date: 26.11.22 Time: 7:00 pm ist (replay available incase you can't make up live) Price: 17$ // 1200 inr to access this workshop OR Free if you're a Jewel member! 💎 (17$/1200 inr for everything inside #Jewel!) Dm to book your spot! 💌 @dreamlifelounge @shivaanibaghel . . . . . #astrology #embodiment #journaling #selfworth #moneymindset #abundance #worthiness #moneyenergy #moneyrelationship #abundance #humandesign #femaleleadership #energyhealing #1111 #manifesting #healing #moneyblocks #wealthembodiment #mindsethealing #subconsciousreprogramming #breakingpatterns #secondhouse #taurus #scorpio #healingworkshops
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Have you been trying to manifest that one damn thing but it’s just not ready to fruit up yet? And perhaps your manifestation has led you to feel even more frustrated and somewhere, a tad bit more guilty and ashamed as if there’s something wrong with you, or perhaps you haven’t done enough or maybe you aren’t deserving enough.

So maybe you find yourself scooping through more manifestation tricks, more rituals, more rampant affirmations and writing your goals 100x a day and perhaps cannot stop staring at your vision board in the hope that MAYBE it works. Well, you are maniac manifesting. Unfortunately, none of it is giving you that result that you are craving.

Well, this is because while you are doing all the right things on the surface to call in your manifestations, beneath all that surface-level actions are vibrations that echo shame, guilt, and fear.

The thing is, you manifest from your subconscious mind as opposed to your conscious mind. Energetically, the visions that you visualize through your third eye chakra, can only be grounded into reality through your lower chakras – the root chakra, the sacral chakra, and the solar plexus chakra.

When there are vibrations of unworthiness, guilt, shame, fear in our subconscious mind from our childhood or growing up years, we keep projecting and looping the same vibration over and over again.

Here are some ways you tend to self-sabotage your manifestation:

  1. Sometimes you can feel guilty and ashamed for calling in your desires because you don’t feel worthy of what you are calling in. So even when you are ‘doing’ the manifestation rituals and affirmations, deep down you have a voice like – who do you think you are This unworthiness can cause you to make mistakes , sabotage opportunities, push away and deny and reject your own self out of your desires.
  2. You feel guilty and ashamed for not having your desires yet in form. So, acting out of your old programmings, you often tell yourself stories of how you must not have done ‘enough’ and push yourself to overfunction, overperform, and chase – which we know, is not an energy of receiving. This is an inner child shadow where you believe ‘it must be my fault’.
  3. A lot of us have a lot of religious and spiritual conditioning around manifestation being bad, dark or evil. The truth is nothing is devilish or dark – every practice and tool is more of what we make of it. However, when your subconscious perceives these as dark, it would want you to steer away from it and protect yourself. This can manifest as you doing the rituals but not actually ‘believing’ in them or judging yourself or punishing yourself when you do. It can also manifest as you avoiding your practices altogether and saying ‘it doesn’t work!’.
  4. If you are calling in something which no one around you has ever experienced, it can cause a lot of guilt and shame. So even when you are ‘doing’ the manifestation work, deep down you have voices like – who do you think you are? Why should ‘you’ receive this? What have you done to get this? And so on.
  5. If what you are asking for was not available to you growing up, your mind can have a really hard time to grasp that it’s possible. This can cause a lot of fear and anxiety around the ‘how’ and send you in a fight and flight mode (root chakra) which means you’d get triggered, your nervous system won’t be responding optimally and you’d be spending most of your energy in trying to find a solution outside or fix rather than trust the Universe to deliver you your manifestations.

This is why surface-level manifestation will never lead you to sustainable long-lasting results until you are willing to go deeper and clean up. This is because every time you try to instill new programming, your old shadows will show up. This creates friction, blockage, manifesting unwanted problems, and self-sabotaging behaviors. This is where Shadow Work and Inner Child Work helps.

Your wounds were not your fault. When we do the inner work, we really see through our programmings and release the attached guilt, shame, and fear we have been carrying through. A lot of times we realize it’s not even ours.

Start Shadow Work here.

Start Inner Child healing here.

Join DLL Membership to receive monthly self-work modules (plus bonus access to courses!) for your journey.

 

 

 

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What other words would you offer to your inner child who deeply craves to shed this wound? How is this wound triggered in your everyday life? The wound of abandonment. This is the birthplace of the fear of abandonment. This is when the first time, your human body or mind, or soul, experienced abandonment. This is the wound of being left out in the cold. This is the wound of having nowhere to belong. This is the wound of being a victim of life having resources to survive withheld from itself. It’s the feeling of helplessness. WHILE AS AN ADULT, ABANDONMENT FROM A LOVED ONE MEANS EMOTIONAL TURMOIL AND HEARTBREAK, AS A CHILD, SURVIVAL IS AT STAKE IF HE/SHE IS ABANDONED BY HER CAREGIVERS. This will naturally cause stress in the body as the adrenal releases cortisol to fight, flight, or freeze in response in order to cope with the situation. As you can think of it, this is obviously very traumatic to deal with. This is when we see how the stress is regulated in our body with a slight trigger or threat of being abandoned. You can find yourself stressing about that one unanswered text, or perfecting that email pitch, or being scared of your boss more than necessary. I am not saying these shouldn’t cause upset as it’s your ultimate right to feel the way you feel – but think of the discrimination between feeling ungrounded and stressed (anxious, breathlessness, high blood pressure, depression, acting out, feeling unsafe etc.) and feeling heartbroken, upset or disappointed. Read the full blog on our website, link in bio OR DM for the link @dreamlifelounge <3 Share this with someone who needs this or let us know below if this supports you today. Sending you immense healing. . . . . . . #abandonment #healing #innerchildhealing #shadowwork #traumahealing #thirdeyeawakening #innerpeace #traumarecovery #spiritualawakening #spiritualhealing #reprogramyourmind #subconsciousreprogramming #healyourrelationship #healyourconnections #innerchildwork #selfhelp #selflove #expandyourvision #meditatedaily #selfcarehabits #rootchakra #chakrahealing #feelingsafe
What other words would you offer to your inner child who deeply craves to shed this wound? How is this wound triggered in your everyday life? The wound of abandonment. This is the birthplace of the fear of abandonment. This is when the first time, your human body or mind, or soul, experienced abandonment. This is the wound of being left out in the cold. This is the wound of having nowhere to belong. This is the wound of being a victim of life having resources to survive withheld from itself. It’s the feeling of helplessness. WHILE AS AN ADULT, ABANDONMENT FROM A LOVED ONE MEANS EMOTIONAL TURMOIL AND HEARTBREAK, AS A CHILD, SURVIVAL IS AT STAKE IF HE/SHE IS ABANDONED BY HER CAREGIVERS. This will naturally cause stress in the body as the adrenal releases cortisol to fight, flight, or freeze in response in order to cope with the situation. As you can think of it, this is obviously very traumatic to deal with. This is when we see how the stress is regulated in our body with a slight trigger or threat of being abandoned. You can find yourself stressing about that one unanswered text, or perfecting that email pitch, or being scared of your boss more than necessary. I am not saying these shouldn’t cause upset as it’s your ultimate right to feel the way you feel – but think of the discrimination between feeling ungrounded and stressed (anxious, breathlessness, high blood pressure, depression, acting out, feeling unsafe etc.) and feeling heartbroken, upset or disappointed. Read the full blog on our website, link in bio OR DM for the link @dreamlifelounge <3 Share this with someone who needs this or let us know below if this supports you today. Sending you immense healing. . . . . . . #abandonment #healing #innerchildhealing #shadowwork #traumahealing #thirdeyeawakening #innerpeace #traumarecovery #spiritualawakening #spiritualhealing #reprogramyourmind #subconsciousreprogramming #healyourrelationship #healyourconnections #innerchildwork #selfhelp #selflove #expandyourvision #meditatedaily #selfcarehabits #rootchakra #chakrahealing #feelingsafe
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Have you been trying to manifest that one damn thing but it’s just not ready to fruit up yet? And perhaps your manifestation has led you to feel even more frustrated and somewhere, a tad bit more guilty and ashamed as if there’s something wrong with you, or perhaps you haven’t done enough or maybe you aren’t deserving enough.

So maybe you find yourself scooping through more manifestation tricks, more rituals, more rampant affirmations and writing your goals 100x a day and perhaps cannot stop staring at your vision board in the hope that MAYBE it works. Well, you are maniac manifesting. Unfortunately, none of it is giving you that result that you are craving.

Well, this is because while you are doing all the right things on the surface to call in your manifestations, beneath all that surface-level actions are vibrations that echo shame, guilt, and fear.

The thing is, you manifest from your subconscious mind as opposed to your conscious mind. Energetically, the visions that you visualize through your third eye chakra, can only be grounded into reality through your lower chakras – the root chakra, the sacral chakra, and the solar plexus chakra.

When there are vibrations of unworthiness, guilt, shame, fear in our subconscious mind from our childhood or growing up years, we keep projecting and looping the same vibration over and over again.

Here are some ways you tend to self-sabotage your manifestation:

  1. Sometimes you can feel guilty and ashamed for calling in your desires because you don’t feel worthy of what you are calling in. So even when you are ‘doing’ the manifestation rituals and affirmations, deep down you have a voice like – who do you think you are This unworthiness can cause you to make mistakes , sabotage opportunities, push away and deny and reject your own self out of your desires.
  2. You feel guilty and ashamed for not having your desires yet in form. So, acting out of your old programmings, you often tell yourself stories of how you must not have done ‘enough’ and push yourself to overfunction, overperform, and chase – which we know, is not an energy of receiving. This is an inner child shadow where you believe ‘it must be my fault’.
  3. A lot of us have a lot of religious and spiritual conditioning around manifestation being bad, dark or evil. The truth is nothing is devilish or dark – every practice and tool is more of what we make of it. However, when your subconscious perceives these as dark, it would want you to steer away from it and protect yourself. This can manifest as you doing the rituals but not actually ‘believing’ in them or judging yourself or punishing yourself when you do. It can also manifest as you avoiding your practices altogether and saying ‘it doesn’t work!’.
  4. If you are calling in something which no one around you has ever experienced, it can cause a lot of guilt and shame. So even when you are ‘doing’ the manifestation work, deep down you have voices like – who do you think you are? Why should ‘you’ receive this? What have you done to get this? And so on.
  5. If what you are asking for was not available to you growing up, your mind can have a really hard time to grasp that it’s possible. This can cause a lot of fear and anxiety around the ‘how’ and send you in a fight and flight mode (root chakra) which means you’d get triggered, your nervous system won’t be responding optimally and you’d be spending most of your energy in trying to find a solution outside or fix rather than trust the Universe to deliver you your manifestations.

This is why surface-level manifestation will never lead you to sustainable long-lasting results until you are willing to go deeper and clean up. This is because every time you try to instill new programming, your old shadows will show up. This creates friction, blockage, manifesting unwanted problems, and self-sabotaging behaviors. This is where Shadow Work and Inner Child Work helps.

Your wounds were not your fault. When we do the inner work, we really see through our programmings and release the attached guilt, shame, and fear we have been carrying through. A lot of times we realize it’s not even ours.

Start Shadow Work here.

Start Inner Child healing here.

Join DLL Membership to receive monthly self-work modules (plus bonus access to courses!) for your journey.

 

 

 

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What does healing mean for you? I remember sometime back being thrown off by this word completely. The spiritual industry somehow made this word extremely otherworldly excruciating, never ending punishment for lightworkers, something outside our control - and then the mental health industry made it like a chronic disease you have to just suck up and fight with through some quick fixes. I vibe with none of those. None of those reflect the true meaning of healing. And somewhere you myt not even realize this, but you have some notions around healing. What are your ideas around healing? Do you say you are on healing journey but you still secretly hate it? Do you think more time is spent in suffering than healing on this quote unquote HEALING journey? Or do you avoid this path as much as you can because it feels risky, dangerous and threatening? Perhaps a part of you feels bleh about it. I know i rolled my eyes at this word at one point. And that's likely my hint that i am not doing it right. Can you not do it right? Yes 100% There are bazzillion of stories and opinions around healing But very few accessible resources around it... One of my bigger ambition is to un-privilege the healing work. There's nothing woo woo around this healing work. In fact, it's one of the most logical and practical work. Your healing work will never make you feel powerless, or a victim to your circumstances or wounds. Your healing work will always and always empower you, liberate you and lean on your self more. Experience it inside JEWEL 💎 ✨ Start with 18$/1200 inr ... Cancel anytime you feel like! www.dreamlifelounge.com/membership #healing #selfhealing #spiritualhealing #innerwork #empoweryourself #evolve #selfworth #selfcare #restandrelax #breakthrough #shadowwork #changeyourthoughts #healyourheart #rise #manifesting #innerchild #somatichealing #tapping #anxietyrelief #mentalhealth #healyourrelationship #energyhealing
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Have you been trying to manifest that one damn thing but it’s just not ready to fruit up yet? And perhaps your manifestation has led you to feel even more frustrated and somewhere, a tad bit more guilty and ashamed as if there’s something wrong with you, or perhaps you haven’t done enough or maybe you aren’t deserving enough.

So maybe you find yourself scooping through more manifestation tricks, more rituals, more rampant affirmations and writing your goals 100x a day and perhaps cannot stop staring at your vision board in the hope that MAYBE it works. Well, you are maniac manifesting. Unfortunately, none of it is giving you that result that you are craving.

Well, this is because while you are doing all the right things on the surface to call in your manifestations, beneath all that surface-level actions are vibrations that echo shame, guilt, and fear.

The thing is, you manifest from your subconscious mind as opposed to your conscious mind. Energetically, the visions that you visualize through your third eye chakra, can only be grounded into reality through your lower chakras – the root chakra, the sacral chakra, and the solar plexus chakra.

When there are vibrations of unworthiness, guilt, shame, fear in our subconscious mind from our childhood or growing up years, we keep projecting and looping the same vibration over and over again.

Here are some ways you tend to self-sabotage your manifestation:

  1. Sometimes you can feel guilty and ashamed for calling in your desires because you don’t feel worthy of what you are calling in. So even when you are ‘doing’ the manifestation rituals and affirmations, deep down you have a voice like – who do you think you are This unworthiness can cause you to make mistakes , sabotage opportunities, push away and deny and reject your own self out of your desires.
  2. You feel guilty and ashamed for not having your desires yet in form. So, acting out of your old programmings, you often tell yourself stories of how you must not have done ‘enough’ and push yourself to overfunction, overperform, and chase – which we know, is not an energy of receiving. This is an inner child shadow where you believe ‘it must be my fault’.
  3. A lot of us have a lot of religious and spiritual conditioning around manifestation being bad, dark or evil. The truth is nothing is devilish or dark – every practice and tool is more of what we make of it. However, when your subconscious perceives these as dark, it would want you to steer away from it and protect yourself. This can manifest as you doing the rituals but not actually ‘believing’ in them or judging yourself or punishing yourself when you do. It can also manifest as you avoiding your practices altogether and saying ‘it doesn’t work!’.
  4. If you are calling in something which no one around you has ever experienced, it can cause a lot of guilt and shame. So even when you are ‘doing’ the manifestation work, deep down you have voices like – who do you think you are? Why should ‘you’ receive this? What have you done to get this? And so on.
  5. If what you are asking for was not available to you growing up, your mind can have a really hard time to grasp that it’s possible. This can cause a lot of fear and anxiety around the ‘how’ and send you in a fight and flight mode (root chakra) which means you’d get triggered, your nervous system won’t be responding optimally and you’d be spending most of your energy in trying to find a solution outside or fix rather than trust the Universe to deliver you your manifestations.

This is why surface-level manifestation will never lead you to sustainable long-lasting results until you are willing to go deeper and clean up. This is because every time you try to instill new programming, your old shadows will show up. This creates friction, blockage, manifesting unwanted problems, and self-sabotaging behaviors. This is where Shadow Work and Inner Child Work helps.

Your wounds were not your fault. When we do the inner work, we really see through our programmings and release the attached guilt, shame, and fear we have been carrying through. A lot of times we realize it’s not even ours.

Start Shadow Work here.

Start Inner Child healing here.

Join DLL Membership to receive monthly self-work modules (plus bonus access to courses!) for your journey.

 

 

 

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